The Pregnant Pause

As my pregnancy continues, I’m feeling more of a need for organization in my home - something my friends and family can tell you is a rare event. Sorting, decluttering, and organizing are all happening at once, and the house looks far better than it has for months. Of course, the three months I spent on the couch throwing up didn’t help the state of affairs, either.

www.flylady.net has tons of useful information, tips, and a forum for anyone who is interested in getting their home organized and running smoothly before baby comes along. There’s even a forum for pregnant moms who are organizing - something we can all use!  If you struggle with household, time, or financial management (or even all of the above), this is a great free resource that you can use to start getting organized.

Happy Nesting!

As a pregnant woman, it may have never occurred to you that you have the ability to make a variety of decisions about your birth. If this is your first pregnancy, take the time to research a variety of childbirth educators and styles. Take classes and read books about things that interest you, such as natural childbirth, home birth, hospital birth, and breastfeeding. New mothers have so many decisions to make about their birthing experience that they sometimes get overwhelmed. However, don’t allow the fact that you’re overwhelmed to overshadow your decision making power. This is your baby, your family, and your birth. Today just might be the day to decide what type of birth YOU want.

Hyperemesis gravidarum is a rare condition that affects less than 2% of pregnant women. The cause is unknown, but symptoms can be severe, including excessive nausea and vomiting, dehydration, depression, and nutritional deficiencies.  Many sufferers experience vomiting throughout their pregnancy, instead of merely in the first trimester.

Women who experience hyperemesis can lose up to 20% of their body weight throughout their pregnancies. This rapid weight loss, if not treated, can cause serious side effects and be dangerous for both mother and fetus.  Hyperemesis (HG) can be treated, however, through a combination of medication and IV hydration.

From the moment Mr. Sperm introduced himself to Ms. Egg, I knew I was pregnant. Not because of women’s intuition, or a mysterious sign from God - that would have been too easy. I knew because before the test ever showed positive, I was bent double over the toilet. Seven to eight times a day.

After I visited the doctor for the first time, I came home with prescription meds for nausea, and all the normal help for morning sickness advice, which is fodder for another post. Nothing worked…the vomiting continued. For four months. In fact, I’m 24 weeks today and still throw up several times per week.

I’ve been diagnosed with a lovely condition called hyperemesis gravidarum, which is Latin for “pregnant woman who vomits without ceasing while begging her husband to kill her quickly”  You know it’s bad when your 18 month old begins to “pretend vomit” while saying “mommy…sick….mommy…sick”.  Hopefully she’s not scarred for life.

A pregnant pause (as in the classical definition, “many possibilities”) is a technique of comic timing used to accentuate a comedy element, where the comic pauses at the end of a phrase to build up suspense. It’s often used at the end of a comically awkward statement or in the silence after a seemingly non-comic phrase to build up a comeback.

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Raising a toddler and a home business while gestating means that life is filled with these comedic moments. Our pregnancy itself has been rather surprising, and we’re only halfway there. Join me for the ride as I live out my “comically awkward” life, with many bumps, stops, and pauses along the way.